132 thoughts on “The front lines of the War on Christmas”

1. Eeeesh, that is a tough one. Similar to what I’ve had with the in-laws and the Happy Holidays/Merry Christmas debate…which I’m much more diplomatic about than at my blog, hah. (sometimes computer illiterate relatives is a good thing)
   I go back and forth so much on death penalty, because I know the rational points, and I don’t believe people have a right to just put someone to death no matter WHAT they do..but then again my emotions want to “kill ’em” when I hear some horrible story about a child being beaten and sexually abused and all those other things we see on shows like Court TV. I think, though, the rational side does win for me on this one. Why do we need to resort to violence/murder to show that what this person did was wrong, we don’t…it’s just the passion and rage we feel when something horrific has happened.

2. “And raped, and beaten by guards, and sold as slaves by prison gangs,” I said. “That really sounds good to you? Because it sounds like a pretty lousy life for violent criminals, which is exactly what they deserve.”
   I’m against death penalty for the same reason(s) as you are. However I don’t think prisoners deserve to be raped and beaten by guards. Their life is lousy and yep, they deserve that but no way they deserve to be maltreated.

3. my dad would probably do the same thing, so whenever he asks me political questions (because i’m the liberal of the family) i won’t answer them cuz then i’ll have to explain my every move to him. it’s just bad.

4. I enjoy reading your blog, even though you and I would probably disagree about most political/moral/religious issues. This is your place for expressing your views, so I won’t even begin to try to debate the death penalty with you. But, if you are going to blame O’Reilly for your dad’s thoughts on the issue, you need to be careful.
   O’Reilly, the bleeding heart liberal that he is, is OPPOSED to the death penalty. He’s very vocal about that. So, you can hate him for all sorts of reasons (as I’m sure you do), but he actually agrees with YOU on this issue!

5. And no need to watch the commercial on Salon to read the complete article. Just click on the “Print article” button and you’ll get the complete version.
   Wil probably knows about that but because he’s writing for Salon he probably can’t say this.

6. Here’s the question: do you support unfair punishments? If Wil steals a cookie and Wil’s sister steals a cookie, should Wil get spanked 30 times and grounded for a month while Wil’s sister gets telephone privileges taken away for a week? If you can’t support unfairness for something this trivial, how could you support it in a matter of life and death?

7. That must have been a painful moment for you. I’m sorry you had to go through it.
   My own family is quite dismissive of my liberal views, or Commie talk, as they put it. I just go out of my way to avoid certain subjects now.
   I still find it hard to reconcile the memory of the parents that raised me with the people that fear mongering has now created.
   I hope you find an easier way to deal with it.

8. Tookie didn’t steal a cookie. He killed 4 people (at least) and founded a gang that has caused the deaths of countless more innocent people. A jury found him guilty and he was sentenced to death, based on the laws in California. Based on all that, he should die.
   If someone doesn’t agree with the death penalty for any crimes, they should be sure to elect state and federal representatives who will change the laws about how we should punish the most terrible criminals.
   This approach of trying to avoid the execution based on behavior AFTER the crime just is not an effective approach. Everything was done here according to the LAW. If you don’t like it, you need to work to get the LAW changed – not to try to circumvent the court mandated sentence at the last minute.
   Regarding the racial issues that people have brought up…I don’t know if the stats will show that more blacks are being executed than whites, or not. I kinda doubt it. But even if the stats do show that, it doesn’t mean that blacks who have been sentenced should not be executed. All it says is that we don’t need to be letting the white guys get off easy. They need to be executed with the same degree of diligence as everyone else.
   So, I guess I’m on the other side of the argument..I say that we shouldn’t let ANYONE off easy. The more liberal viewpoint is that we should let everyone off easy. (easier?)

9. Wil,
   I found this blog post excellent in rebutting pro-death arguments: http://sethabramson.blogspot.com/2005/12/what-death-penalty-advocates-want.html

10. Wil,
    People change. Why is it when someone moves from the right to the left (ala John McCain)they’re enlightened mavericks? When you go from the left to the right you become a pod person. Your parents grew up. Dennis Hopper SOBERED UP. I got a job, got a check and registered GOP within the year.
    Besides, try being a New York Mets fan and a Republican in a family of NY Yankee fans and democrats. It ain’t easy.
    Take care
    Manny
    PS – Bill O’Reilly is AGAINST the death penalty. So put down the kool aid on that point. Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!!!

11. “I want to make something clear, here: I know I’m not the only 33-year-old liberal who has watched his parents grow older and more conservative.”
    It’s hard for me to say if this is the case in my family – my father passed away when I was 15 and my parents never had the first inkling of a political discussion with me during the formative years. I don’t know how, or if, they voted, but in the last couple years my mother has started walking the plank – she doesn’t trust Bush, but she’s convinced all the 9/11 hijackers were Iraqi. (“Where’d you hear that?” “On Fox.” “Ahhh – you know they were predominantly Saudi Arabian in reality?” “Ehh, they’re all the same”)
    The upshot of all of this is that I never got any of the family indoctrination one way or another and was able to formulate my own views, which I think lay somewhere between the extremes of the right and left which get all the media time these days. Republicans would call me an American-hating liberal and Democrats would suspect me of being part of the VRWC, but the only political ideal I ever took in whole from someone else was from Douglas Adams, who wrote that you should never trust anyone who wants to be elected President. Sure, he was referring to the Galaxy, but the notion scales down well (and I’m not sure our current President believes in the Galaxy – the jury’s still out on that)
    However, if we are all doomed to become more conservative (or more liberal) as we get older, then we should all be packed off to the centers and turned into Soylent Green at the appropriate time.
    The hardest part is not knowing what’s worse – the alleged “leaders” from both sides of the partisan divide who are capable of nothing but incompetence, or the browbeaten citizenry that treats them like rock stars instead of the true employees they are.

12. Manny,
    where do you get the strange idea that John McCain has moved to the left?
    He has endorsed teaching so-called “intelligent design” in public schools!

13. Am I the only one who can’t get the Salon page to work?
    I’ve tried both Firefox and IE and when I click on the daypass link, all I get is a blank page.
    Its frustrating, because I really want to read the article!

14. Regarding Salon, I think I signed up for it once after you recommended it on WWDN. I’ve turned on a couple of friends to it, and they’re fans of it also. I think it’s cool you wrote an article for them.
    Oh, BTW, they no longer have weights in California prisons. Got rid of them some years ago due to cops complaining about how big the inmates were when they were released.
    Family arguments are always the hardest ones, no matter what the subject. Hope you worked things out with your Dad later.

15. I’m sorry that you had to experience that – particularly during the holidays, in front of Nolan. I’m wishy-washy on the death penalty myself; part of me can’t justify it and feels it’s immoral and illogical, but the other part – the irrational, vengeful part – thinks, “It’s what they deserve!”
    I’m lucky that my parents have stayed fairly liberal and know me well enough to realize that a tirade will only make me more stubborn. But my extended family is a whole different matter, so I consciously do NOT talk politics with them. It’s so not worth it – you aren’t going to convince them, they aren’t going to convince you, and the effort does little but bring up hard feelings.
    I hope the rest of your holidays reflect the “peace, love, and joy” that we hope for during this season.

16. It’s funny because really the only way to have an intelligent discussion about this kind of subject is for neither party to get self-righteous about it. It sounds like your dad crossed the line first, but your reaction (“Where’s the compassionate person I once knew?” — indicating that you feel compassion is incompatible with support for the death penalty, even though your arguments are about practical matters (deterrence, poor people, etc.)) clearly shows that you feel the same way, even if your debating style is toned down. It’s an issue with which both you and your father are emotionally involved, rather than logical and removed. It’s hard to get anywhere in such a situation. Both sides just end up feeling bad.
    But that’s not the way it should be. It’s a matter of public policy, and therefore something that’s up for reasonable debate. There are arguments to be made for both sides, and just because one supports one side or the other doesn’t mean that one has been “brainwashed.” I could just as easily call you brainwashed by the left wing. It sounds like you’re a DNC talking point podperson when you wheel out the “poor people” and “deterrent” arguments.
    Just to briefly talk about the deterrent argument: it’s a red herring. Nobody commits a murder thinking that they will get caught. They think they will get away with it. That is, if they think that far ahead at all. They’re called “crimes of passion” for a reason. So for one side to argue that death/prison/whatever is an effective deterrent, and the other side to argue the opposite — it’s pointless. The real point of prison and the death penalty is to remove criminals from society (hopefully for long enough that they’ll mellow out) and possibly from the gene pool. It’s not to deter crimes, although that might be a side effect.
    And I strongly feel that the epidemic of rape and other abhorrent behavior in prison is far more of a problem in our society (and our criminal justice system) than the death penalty. How many prisoners are there right now, subject to rape and God knows what else? Millions. How many are executed? A few dozen a year, at most? Drop in the bucket. More people are killed by lightning each year in the US (average of 82 per year, 1980-1995) than by the death penalty (65 in 2003). And frankly, I’d prefer to be executed on the spot in the courtroom rather than be subjected to repeated ass-raping in a prison. That’s incredibly cruel and unusual punishment as far as I’m concerned.

17. We need to have a meaningful discussion in this country (something other than a screaming match) about what prison is for. If it’s solely punitive, there’s little point in ever letting anyone out. People can call me a bleeding-heart liberal all they want, but I’ve actually visited a maximum-security prison and done a fair amount of research on the issue; money spent on prisoner amenities (and, more specifically, on job training and – no kidding – art appreciation) reduces recidivism once prisoners are out as well as violence behind bars. So a little kindness toward a criminal a) makes it safer and cheaper to keep them incarcerated, and b) makes it less likely that you’ll be mugged at the ATM in the future. (Incidentally, the reason they got rid of weights in California prisons has nothing to do with how well-toned the inmates are – it’s because they were usable as weapons. Clever inmates get by with Hefty bags filled with water. Those guys are all friggin’ MacGyver.)
    As far as the death penalty goes, I’m against it. I would be even if we didn’t occasionally execute, you know, someone who hadn’t committed the crime of which they were convicted. But since we do that with appalling regularity, I gotta say it’s an omelette that I am just not interested in making.
    Zippy, there are obviously many, many people who work diligently to change the laws that allow executions. It’s hard to get anything done in California – the prison guards’ lobbying group is the most powerful in the state by a long shot. Regardless, the privilege of the executive to offer clemency is perfectly legal as well, or else nobody would have asked the Governator about it in the first place. I gather from your comments that you don’t think much of the possibility of redemption, so good luck, and here’s hoping you never need it.

18. TVsWW, you just got a taste of the family buzzsaw, yo.
    I know what you mean. I’m here in PV for a bit with the family. And so far, I’ve heard remarks about them Mexicans, Thai women, Chinese Buddhists destroying Christmas, black gangstas, on and on. I didn’t think my family was racist, but guess what…
    They is.
    And I have also been running into some really nasty almost-glee at the death of Tookie Williams. Our nation is sick, bro. Me and you. And our families. I mean New Orleans is being ethnically cleansed as we speak and most Americans can’t seem to care. They’ve sent their blankets, canned food, or $25 donations to Some Charitable Non-Profit With Pictures of Poor Kids.
    Not only is racism alive and well in our nation, it is as strong and vibrant as it has ever been.
    Imo say this again (cuz it’s true)… the only reason we are even marginally concerned with the fiasco in Iraq is because American soldiers are dying in unacceptable numbers. If we had lost 100 troops up to now and 1,000,000 Iraqis were dead, I can tell you for absolute gospel that America would hardly notice.
    2,000,000?
    3,000,000?
    No.
    We killed that many in Vietnam and to this day all of the books, films, and television programs focus on the psychological turmoil of returning troops.
    3,000,000 dead Asians?
    Whatever.
    Freedom is on the march.
    They’re not real people.
    Americans from the left and the right say that every day. “They’re not like us.” Dems say that as much as Republicans sadly.
    The other thing is this ridiculous “War on Christmas” meme that has so transparently been manufactured to cover up the Alito nomination, Iraq, and Bush’s wiretapping. My family has always voted straight Dem. It’s not an exagerration to say they absolutely despise the GOP. But since I’ve been here this inane War on Christmas keeps coming up and I wonder where the hell they get it. They don’t watch Fox. But CNN and just about everyone else is riding it too.
    You see, even though they are registered Dems, they are really Republicans. Or more specifically, pro-empire. That’s the Lieberman Factor. If you really objectively look at the mind and actions of the American electorate, you’ll find that something like 85% support our ongoing global jihad. The rest of the planet has known that forever. We Dems continue to labor under the delusion that we actually have a somewhat viable left in this nation. We don’t. Haven’t really for about 70 years. When FDR grudgingly made concessions to the little people to stave off revolution.
    One more thing about LA. This is a particularly racially polarized city. For all of its cosmopolitan world city back-slapping, this place is really a balkanized uneasy confederation of mutually hostile enclaves. I forgot how much of a hierarchy there is in LA. Everyone needs some other ethnic group to look down on and each group will tell you how that OTHER ethnic group is the reason Los Angeles has issues. The Los Angeles experience is about minding boundaries, your place. It’s about fear. Your family is reacting to that constant fear by projecting the menacing (to them) changes of LA onto Tookie Williams. In their mind, he’s responsible for all the traffic, molestation, drugs, pollution, and riots.
    That’s Tookie’s fault.
    Tookie claims he never killed those four people. Meanwhile, in the very same week, Bush says he killed 30,000 Iraqis give or take a 100,000. Snore. Americans don’t care.
    Yeah. It’s fucked up.

19. Spudnuts:
    Wow! Well said! As a displaced New Orleanian I wish you were in charge rather than the ass hats currently running the show!

20. I don’t have legislative views as such on the topic of the death penalty, I can only offer a personal perspective: How we deal with others, irrespective of their actions, is more about who we are, than what they did. Mercy, and grace make us better individuals, even if they must be tempered by social pragmatism.
    In that sense, supporting the death penalty damages us as individuals by, more often than not aiding us in giving in to our most base instincts for brutal justice.
    No human case is ever black and white, or simple. That does not mean punishment should not occur, or that it can occur in an individual manner, though our justice system tries to produce this effect as best it can. I am not arguing for changes in law, I am arguing on the basis of personal and human philosophy.

21. (nor am I arguing that the justice system is within a spiral arm of perfect, naturally. I am clearly against the death penalty. I merely claim ignorance of such specifics and hence the right to argue in that area)

22. Wil,
    Excellent post and piece in Salon. I’m definitely going to become a regular reader.
    I’ve had much similar experiences and I think you’re observation that the shouting heads are really the ones waging a war on christmas (spirit) is dead on.
    I too have wondered about this phenomenon as it relates to highly intelligent people like your father. I visited a friend whose father is an advanced-degree-holding highly intellectual person former priest/teacher, the works. He is a conservative catholic, and has many well-thought out arguments for his views. I was stunned one day to have breakfast with him and listen to him regale me with Rush’s latest diatribe. He was positively revelling in it, and as usual it was full of terrible argumentation and irrationality.
    It was really stunning. If one of his students had made such poor logical moves he would have downgraded them instantly. But here he was glorying in the sheerest nonsense.
    I’ve also noticed with men like him, and with my own stepfather, who is generally libertarian, an urge to bait and poke, without provocation, on these issues where they know there is disagreement, but are in a certain kind of family setting where heated debate isn’t really appropriate.
    I usually deal with it alright, but I definitely share the thoughts and feelings you expressed in your post: a general sense of bewilderment, confusion, and incomprehension. Why are you alpha-dogging me here and now of all places?
    I think you’re attribution of the cause is essentially correct too. I often hear ordinary people using the same exact phrases with the same intonations that the shouting pundits use. its eerie. “raymond shaw is the kindest, most gentle, wonderful human being I’ve ever known.”
    i also think that the television format in general degrades thinking on these matters. i’ve noticed that these outburst conversations rarely last longer than two minutes until the cut-to-commercial reflex sets in and minds wander to other things.
    its the “two-minute hate” phenomenon from 1984. Our dads are busy guys who aren’t entirely happy (who is?). So you get some guy shouting at you every day for an hour, or even a few minutes, that the name of your pain is Tookie Williams, or homos, or mexicans or whatever, and that’s what sticks. The name then becomes a pavlovian trigger for whatever negative emotions exist.
    anyway, thanks for bringing it up. its become a regular feature of my visits home, and its at least comforting to know that i’m not the only one getting sandbagged by people i love.

23. Leave it to a psych major to bring this up: were your grandparents fairly conservative? Despite all that we try to do to find our own way in the world, over 70% of us will slip right back into what we knew growing up in the beliefs area. This is after less than half ever really examine their beliefs in the first place, mind you.
    No wonder social changes take so long! 😉 Self-awareness is the key to making a lasting change in core beliefs. I’d recommend Helen Langer’s book, “Mindfullness” as a gift to your parents, with a notation that you’re glad they raised you as such a free spirit, and hope to see them re-aquainted with their free-er selves.
    While I vacillate on who deserves to die, I am glad he wasn’t granted clemency. Not for the reasons your dad states, but because I’ve seen first-hand how a person will expect a shift into “good deeds” or “godliness” to erase the fears and pains they willfully inflicted in the past. His execution was, to me, more about the hell of the gang wars than the murder of 4 people. Doesn’t make it right, all those that died or were otherwise injured are still changed, but the human inclination towards vengance was served by his death. (I did say social change takes a long time! I look forward to a humane, effective alternative to prisons becoming wide-spread. That will require a boatload of social changes, as you know!)
    I hope your future gathering will be without such dramas, and that your kids will talk openly with you about any confusion they feel over the incident.

24. I suppose my family is odd, because with the exception of my maybe my aunt and uncle, my whole family, including my 70 year old grandfather are leaning further left, its not really explainible by me, but it seems to work that way, one possible cause is our president, and that little war over in iraq, by the way, I remember meeting you at LosCon 2003 I wanna say, we walked together to the Linux panel (it turned to a Linux vs. SCO yelling match) and your one of the nicest people with fame I have met, and thought I would drop a line and say hi again ^^

25. heh. yeah. i love my dad and my stepmom, but i can’t talk about politics with them.
    during the late 70’s and early 80’s, my mother used to say “i used to believe in the Great Society, but now MY PENDULUM HAS SWUNG TO THE RIGHT.”
    i’m just waiting for the national pendulum to swing back to the left for a while…

26. Great piece, Wil. I agree that the Fox News/Right Wing sound machine has as its ultimate goal, polarizing this country and turning a profit while doing so.
    As an aside, my husband is a soldier currently stationed in Iraq. He says there would be many soldiers who would love to see you as part of a USO tour. You’d be surprised at the number of geeks in uniform!

27. I was always very much for the death penalty. Now, one law degree later and with much reasoned debate, I am against it.
    The main problem encountered is that people always have strong views on the death penalty and are not willing to accept that they might be wrong. Anyone who cannot see both sides of the arguments, and there are good arguments on both sides, should accept that they are not objective enough to argue the topic!

28. It’s late and I am very tired, so I will keep this short.
    The death penalty is essentially the highly potent, supremely motivational human instinct known as Revenge, wrapped in the seemingly logical guise of Rationale. The closure your dad speaks so agitatedly about is, sadly and unfortunately, not possible for the families of murder victims: no matter what else happens, no matter how many killers are killed subsequently in retribution for their horrific loss, they will never, ever be whole again after losing a loved one in this manner.
    In the absence or impossibility of such a closure, revenge (rationalized in the minds of both the victims’ families and the state as Justice) becomes the only option, a feeble substitute for Justice and closure but attractive to many, borne as it is out of the helpless feeling barbaric acts of conscienceless violence inevitably generate and the need they provoke to do “something,” no matter how misplaced or inappropriate. In a strange way, executing the killer is an attempt on the part of society to restore sanity and order to a chaotic and inexplicable chain of events, as if the scheduled, methodical killing of the murderer will somehow offset the (usually) random and unexpected act(s) of violence that precipitated it.
    The key to us becoming truly civilized is our potential recognition that more killing, whether it be to “avenge the killers” or “protect society” or “make things right” only perpetuates the numbing, unconscionable cycle of violence that, left uninterrupted, will be the ultimate downfall of our species.
    The only access point to real Healing is through the disciplined and mindful practice of Forgiveness. It may not be what some people want to hear, but it is the truth of the matter.
    Hang in there, Wil.

29. Breakfast 12-23-2005

    Interesting posts I found while perusing my blogroll:
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30. I am so glad to hear that you’re a Salon reader, too. I gladly pay for my Salon membership. Congrats on writing for them.

31. Like many others, I’ve had similar experiences growing up. My parents always voted Democrat locally but Republican nationally. They believe in the death penalty, whether they admit it or not they’re racist, my dad is convinced that recycling trucks just go to the same landfill as trash trucks. They swallow FOX News and Rush whole when they are otherwise pretty smart people.
    In my case one of the most memorable Christmases involved the fact that my dad had bought my mom a fur coat, one that came in pieces ready to assemble and therefore was affordable. While I’m not quite PETA material, I am against an industry that harvests the skins of animals that don’t get used as food and does so in a very cruel manner. I said so, with all the conviction a college freshman can summon. I got mocking laughter as a response, and a little while later my mom snuck up on me to scrub the fur in my face, just to make everyone laugh again as I jumped away in revulsion. The kicker? I found out years later that the fur was fake.
    Since then, most of my holiday family gatherings have been a matter of attend and stay as far out of the action as possible. It saddens me greatly that I don’t wish to spend more time with my family because of this divide, but it hurts just as much to be ridiculed for what I believe. A no-win situation.
    Thanks as always for sharing this, Wil. I admit I’ve been skimming or skipping with all the poker stuff lately, but you reminded me why I so enjoy reading your writing. I hope the rest of your holiday season is wonderful.

32. So, what does Mr. Wheaton think of your essay?

33. Nice Essay.
    I have to say that I am lucky… my parents are getting more liberal as they get older.

34. It’s sad that you had to have this clash of opinions on a day that is supposed to be all about love and sharing time with your family and maybe being religious.
    But maybe it helps to look at it this way: Mabye people who are pro-death penalty simply express a certain amount of helplessness (as one of the other posters already pointed out, it’s about revenge because revenge is all that is left since there is nothing to bring back those that were killed) – you have this really bad crook and there is nothing in the way of repairing what he has done, but something HAS to be done, right? So they revert to the Old Testament and even have some justification for it (ignoring that there is a sequel to this BIBLE – the first part that says otherwhise).
    And if you look at what happens in prisons, murders, drugs, rapings, beatings, corruption, humiliation – is that so terribly different from putting people to death “by law”? What about human rights there? I know, this is not officially happening, but still, what is the difference to some Guanta… err… unnamed third party torture camp? It’s terribly dishonest, that’s what it is. We don’t put people to death but we subject them to years of all kinds of hell in a “civilized” prison… as if that is going to make those who are non-lifers fit for release – no sir, I don’t think so.
    It’s a huge catch22 society as a whole is in.
    Punish criminals? -Absolutely.
    Lock them away? -Absolutely.
    Guard the human rights of prison inmates as closely as those of innocent citizens? -Well, but they’re crooks, murderers, rapists, so…
    Let prisons become brutal, lawless dungpiles? -Hmmm.
    Let conditions in prisons degrade to a level that forces inmates into law-of-the-jungle type gangs, definitely taking away any chance for resocialization? -Well…
    Don’t get me wrong here, I do want criminals to be punished, not petted. Yet, if the only thing the punishment accomplishes is to drum into them the lesson that the only way to survive is to brutalize everybody else, then I am not so sure where all of this is heading.
    Most of all, mistakes are still made by judges and juries. What do you say to a man who innocently went to a nightmare of a prison? And what do you say to somebody who was wrongfully executed?
    Oooops.
    Keep your head up Wil, so that your kids keep looking up to you.

35. Gee. How not to sound like a preaching asshole responding to this one?
    Here is something (I am not a religious man in any way – okay sorta Zen-ish, but that’s as far as I go) from the Bible – I think. Worthy quote wherever it originated from.
    Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
    Sounds like simple logic, and I think you would agree with that one, Wil?
    Now, if somebody abducted my six year old daughter, raped her, killed her, chopped her into bits to hide the evidence, then was caught and “without a shadow of a doubt” convicted –
    – I would say take the bastard, ram a telephone pole up his ass, chop his carcass into bits for fertilizer and use it to grow crops to feed some decent human beings without enough to eat.
    Am I being too harsh? I don’t’ think so. My “opinion” is just this; if you knowingly and vindictively kill in cold blood, you have forfeited your rights as a decent human being and should suffer a like fate – same as your victim.
    Or, we can just slap their wrist and say “you shouldn’t have done that” and here is a nice prison cell for you to sit in for many years to think about what you have done.
    Now for the real issue. Our judicial system sucks the major wang. It’s corrupt and wallows in technical crap which allows real criminals to go free and convicts innocent people.
    What is the answer? Well there isn’t a simple one. I’m just giving my opinion, not solving the world’s problems.
    And Wil, come on, you mean if somebody killed Nolan because Nolan looked at him wrong – you would be all for not venting some major killing whoop-ass on this individual? Really? I’ll tell you what. You say capital punishment doesn’t work?
    Well I say, that any “without a shadow of a doubt” vindictive SOB that murders in cold blood (and is disposed of) won’t ever be doing it again to anybody else’s loved ones. And there are many cases of repeat offenders to back up these claims.
    And war? Well “opinion again” everybody has choices to make. And “I was just following orders” went out about the time of Nuremberg. Now if somebody gives you a gun and says “go kill that person over there,” you have a choice. And if you are killed or disciplined for not killing – then we are really living on one totally fucked up world.
    Tough one Wil – and yes, I most likely came off as some “holier-than-though” asshole.
    But you opened this can of worms – I only gave them a stir.

36. I’m lucky, I suppose. My father, an Episcopal priest, has always been true to his own beliefs. He spends a LOT of time talking about them. And we generally agree on most political issues – I’m a bit more foaming-at-the-mouth on gay rights, while he is a harder-core opponent of the death penalty.
    I agree with Dennis Miller – the older, funny Dennis Miller. We should never advocate the death of another human being, but some of these assholes stopped paying their dues a long time ago. I’m not talking about Tookie, here – it seems like he was, at least by the time he got THE SHOT, if not before – a decent man, trying to do his best, who maybe got sidetracked along the way.
    One of the fundamental questions of government, it seems to me, is this: When is it moral for a society to do that which it is not moral for a member of that society to do? If you examine that, and people’s answers to it, you find out where they stand, and where you stand.

37. Can’t remember the last time I’ve laughed so hard while simultaneously re-living the Great Thanksgiving Tragedy of 2004 (aka: The Stay The Course In Iraq Dinner Debacle) or the Harvey Family Birthday Meltdown of 2000 (otherwise known as the Dick Cheney: Genius or PsychoDevil Debate).
    Hope you don’t mind – linked to the article on our website (I’m co-host of the Bill Press Show, a national lib chatshow on Sirius). Thanks again for the random boost of support on the day i head home for the holidays – merry christmas.

38. How surprised I was to click on Salon and find an essay by Mr. Wheaton! Bravo!
    It is curious that your parents are moving to Montana. This may not be the right-wing paradise they imagine it to be. Google “Brian Schweitzer” and you’ll see what I mean.
    Perhaps this desire to move to Montana can also be ascribed to a subliminal implant. Only this one happened many years ago, under the influence to the evil weed and Frank Zappa’s music.
    Ask your dad if he’s going to raise him up a crop of dentil floss!
    Merry Chrismahannukwaanza!

39. Funny enough, your first response was the best one: “I guess we’d better not talk about this.”
    There are some topics that are fruitless to discuss with family. Nothing will get resolved, feelings will get hurt, and they will just result in a big holiday freakout. Kind of like the one you described.
    Luckily this is the internet and we have no such restrictions. 🙂
    I’m solidly anti death penalty, regardless of circumstance. We talk a lot in this country about the importance of life, but most don’t mean it.
    Here’s an excerpt from my recent post “Why the Death Penalty is Wrong” that fairly well summarizes my view: “Principles that fall in the face of difficult circumstances aren’t principles at all. They are rhetoric. . . . The death penalty, by definition, requires our society to acquiesce in a killing. It requires us to put aside our sense of the sanctity of life–all life–and basic human rights in favor of our desire to feel safe and compensated. Capital punishment reduces us.”

40. @Nyarl
    I was afraid I would provoke people the way I provoked you. I can absolutely sympathize with you in some respect – I don’t want to get as personal as you were, mentioning names and all, but if I were in a situation where I caught somebody maliciously threatening one of my loved ones – God have mercy…
    But that’s not the point. Everybody would react very forcefully in such a situation. Every death penalty is issued “without a shadow of a doubt” (at least I sincerely hope so) – but still there are issues in some cases. As much as you think some people deserved to die, imagine for a moment you are the person that for whatever reason is wrongfully convicted. So rather lock people up, in conditions that are strict – no arguing with that – and in some cases, don’t ever let them out again, but take care that you don’t invalidate what civilization stands for. Imho, if that means “providing” prison inmates that will never see the other side of the wall again with the “luxury” of human rights (there still is the Constitution), that’s the price we have to pay.
    Sorry for the Xmax ruckus, I just felt like adding this.
    P.S.: See, we’re all in the boat – the Real War on Christmas is on everywhere… 😉

41. Personally, I don’t agree with the death penalty, but my wife has even more conviction about it. She was two blocks away from the Oklahoma City Bombing in 1995, and *thought* she wanted McVeigh put to death for the murder of 168 people. When the time came, and he was gone, she realized that it changed nothing; in fact, it just added one to the bombing’s death toll.
    For an interesting and poignant treatment of the death penalty phenomenon as related to OKC, look up Terry Bission’s science fiction short story, “macs”. It’s worth the read.

42. “Well I say, that any ‘without a shadow of a doubt’ vindictive SOB that murders in cold blood (and is disposed of) won’t ever be doing it again to anybody else’s loved ones. And there are many cases of repeat offenders to back up these claims.”
    Something I hadn’t considered as a pro-argument for the death penalty. Sure, you could just lock the perpetrator (purple traitor?) up for life…but then subjecting him/her to rapings, etc…would that be BETTER or WORSE than the death penalty? Hard question. A lifetime of misery…or putting them OUT of their misery? Hmm…
    This is something I wrote in my blog a week and a half ago. It probably says a lot of things already discussed here; but since I’m such an opinionated @s$hole, I’m gonna post it. >:-D
    (PS: the first part is quasi-satirical…I’m sure it’ll piss some people off, but it’s meant to make a point and NOT to make light of those who were murdered.)
    —
    So, at 12:35 AM PST, “Tookie” Williams was finally put to death …
    … and then a miracle happened! In contrast to the old saying, Albert Owens was just seen crawling out of his grave and walking to the nearest 7-11 to buy a Big Gulp and a hot dog! And the Yangs were spotted shopping at the local supermarket only minutes after the execution! And, oh my goodnes, Ye-Chen Lin was found dancing at a local night club, still in burial clothes!
    It’s true! It really DOES bring the dead back to life!
    …
    ha ha ha ha.
    But seriously. I do not mean to belittle what happened to those four poor souls in 1981; but the fact of the matter is, killing Williams will not and did not bring those four people back to life. So, what’s the point?
    There can be only one logical answer: closure for the families of the victims. It is NOT justice: it is nothing more than legalized revenge. But it still creates closure…and considering Williams’ assistance in his own execution, I begin to wonder if he was eager to end it all due to some hidden guilt for REALLY having committed those murders some 24 years ago. It is an interesting thought.
    Regardless, the execution of Tookie brings up the differences between what is “right” and what is “correct;” because there is a difference. Gov. Schwarzenegger’s final decision to deny clemency, in my opinion, was technically “correct.” That is, there was more than enough evidence (let’s ignore the fact that the defense team supposedly found a witness that could have exonerated Williams) against Williams, and other arguments to support that Williams was not only guilty, but not truly remorseful for those crimes. To top that off, even if Williams was (God forbid) innocent, to stay the execution would continue to use taxpayers’ dollars and not give the families of the victims closure (which, in my mind, is the only excuse for the death penalty). So, it was convenient as well, and therefore “technically correct.”
    It was, however, not right. If people think humans should stop playing God, then they should do so in every arena; from stem cell research to the death penalty. The whole spectrum. But, I guess, that makes “right” and “wrong” a matter of black-and-white (a typical human assertion). However, every time I think of the entire concept of the death penalty, I’m always reminded of what Gandalf told Frodo in Lord of the Rings: “There are those that live that deserve to die; there are those who die who deserve life. Can you give it to them?”
    The scales are not balanced. In the end, there are only five deaths instead of four. To quote an old saying, “an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.”
    —

43. Hey Wil, I can’t help but think about that episode of TNG you were in called “Justice” where your character is sentenced to death for falling on some new plants. Are you reminded of that episode at all when this debate comes up? There’s some really good points brought up in it, on both sides of the debate, but I especially liked Picard’s line at the end, “There can be no justice so long as laws are absolute. Even life itself is an exercise in exceptions.” 😉

44. Please, please, please stop saying Bill O’Reilly opposes the death-penalty. Like most other things that spew from his mouth, it’s a lie. A simple google search is all it takes to find proof that that’s a line he keeps in his pocket to throw at anyone who dares call him a conservative.

45. The other day, I heard a cover of John Lennon’s Christmas song in which the refrain bearing the TITLE OF THE FLIPPIN’ SONG had been replaced with “Mer-ry-Christ-Mas-Hap-py-New-Year” and it made be sad and angry. Guess what, folks: it is now and always will be called “War is over if you want it.” It’s a profound statement, and it doesn’t deserve to be buried in a homogenized false sentiment.

46. death and the media

    Following on from what I wrote yesterday, about capital punishment, Wil Wheaton had a similar discussion with his dad a few days ago, though in a much more direct fashion, to put it politely. Im basically with Wils dad on this, though I …

47. Two years ago I was in the hospital after having a pacemaker/defibrillator implanted. Needless to say I wasn’t up to a political debate, which was just when my oldest sister (ex-hippie chick now super-ditto-head) decided to rail on Clinton, the “socialist-communist” ex-president. When I lifted my head from my hospital pillow to remind her that this so-called “socialist-communist” signed the crippling welfare reform act, she acted as though she’d never heard of such a thing. Families. Go figure.

48. I loved to read the story. Its really well written, if I can say that. I should read more of your novels or assays. Don’t have so much time, though. Maybe at Christmas. Do you have a regular column or are you going to get one in Salon? Thats probably difficult.
    And would you ever consider going into politics? Maybe not, because who would be mad enough to do that.
    Merry Christmas to you all!

49. cripes, man. never, never discuss politics at christmas with the family. regardless of what’s said or who said it. it’s just dumb. discuss aunt molly’s new boyfriend or the way your mom’s changed her hair or the latest catchy commerical, but never, never politics.

50. That must have been tough, not to mention awkward. The death penalty is a hard issue to discuss with anyone. Just goes to show that even something as strong as families can be divided by issues as serious as politics and religion.
    Personally, I’m with you on this particular case. The guy is in prison and will be for a long time whether he is put to death or not. Plus, isn’t this the same guy who did a lot of good in the community by writing children’s books that discourage just the type of gang violence he used to be involved in? That should count for something, I think.
    Just my two credits.
    Happy holidays.

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